Before you answer that, let’s get clear about success. How do you define success? Is it fame, money, accomplishment, tons of friends, total freedom, and the abundance of “things”? Maybe success is just a word made to stroke our egos and build our self esteem. For many people, defining success is difficult when it triggers memories of failure, worthlessness and despair. It seems that being aware of just the idea of success, plants goals within us. These goals turn into dreams and expectations. And living up to all of that can wreak havoc on our sense of self worth. So how can it be that one word, can motivate and design our lives, but on our worst days, challenge how we value ourselves?